A sex therapist, Olivia Bentley has stated that she takes a hands-on approach with her clients, sleeping with them to “save marriages.”
She told the New York Post,
“I get physically involved with the majority of the people I see, I think that’s part of the appeal.”
The “veteran” sex worker, who has been in the field for 15 years, claims that women have asked her to “demo sex acts” on their husbands, and that some wives give their eager husbands a “hall pass” to visit Bentley.
Outside of the bedroom, Bentley, who has up to ten clients per week, emotionally supports her customers and gives them advice on how to preserve a healthy sex life and, as a result, their marriage.
Despite her lack of official counseling qualifications, Bentley is a “veteran” sex worker of 15 years.
“People are usually nervous so I have to do my job at making them feel very comfortable and easing them into it, I’m kind of like the guide,” she said, noting that she wants the women to “feel very confident and comfortable.”
“I’m very affectionate physically and emotionally towards the wife always. If she’s feeling very good then the mood is elevated and we have a really good time and the husband is very grateful for the experience.”
While Bentley does not have official “counseling qualifications,” she does have a master’s degree in education and learned many of her X-rated moves while working at Nevada’s Moonlite BunnyRanch, a legal brothel.
The self-proclaimed sex therapist denounced “unfair” women who refuse to fulfill their partner’s sexual desires.
“I know there are a lot of sexless relationships out there and there are a lot of unhappy men,” she said, explaining that male clients will express their relationship discontent.
After a “few years” with their wives, Bentley’s male clients have said their “sex life goes out the door.” This, she said, is when the so-called “hall pass” is played, adding that their needs are “met elsewhere” if not by their wives.
“It’s not an option to get married to a man and then turn around and say, ‘Oh sorry I’m not into sex anymore, too bad for you,’ she said.
“It’s not fair but I see it all the time. There’s tons of that out there and then they’re not really happy. I don’t shame them if they’re going to go to a provider.”
But steamy sex lives are also fostered outside of the sheets – Bentley advises her clients to keep up their physique, which she claims can increase libido.
“The more athletic you are, the more sex you want to have – you feel more confident and aroused,” explained Bentley, a fitness fanatic herself.
While she recommends men practicing sit-ups to shrink their “big gut” – which she claims restricts blood flow – she also advises that both parties stretch and do yoga, regardless of who puts in more work in the bedroom.
Bentley applauds her brave clients for working towards a healthier relationship.
“Couples who have sessions with me are the coolest in the world because they understand the importance of sexuality in their relationship as a part of maintaining a healthy marriage,” she said.
“When you’re forthcoming with your sexuality and your needs, that’s a healthy thing.”
